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Maria is an aspiring "fit mom" of 3 children, writing about cloth diapers, going green, and her life as a single mom. Maria works with many companies within the cloth diaper industry and beyond, providing social media management, product development, and other services.
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Rafflecopter Giveaway Entry – My Thoughts, Please Share Yours

Overall it seemed that everyone was thrilled with the Google Docs entry method I used previously, save for a small minority that still preferred the comment method.

When Rafflecopter was introduced, lots of people asked for it and I delivered. However, I’ve heard burblings here & there (not from my readers though) that people do not like it, so I wanted to ask everyone what they think.

Here’s why I like form entry:

  • Super easy/fast to enter, assuming minimal entry methods. Definitely easier than leaving comments, especially when the blog uses the blasted captcha and/or “you’re posting comments too fast” messages.
  • Your information stays private, no posting your email address in “public.”
  • Very easy for me as the blogger to check for duplicate entries by sorting the form.
  • Easy for me to gather info for the sponsor about entrant responses, unique entrants, total entries etc.
  • I love that people can leave genuine comments on the blog post, vs. only comments to get an entry.

Here’s why I like Rafflecopter:

  • If an entry is offered for a Facebook “like” you can see right on the form if you already “like” the page, and “like” it right from there if you don’t.
  • I know people like to see their odds of winning, so with Google Docs, I was updating each giveaway many times per day to number entries and update the post. Rafflecopter does this, in real time.
  • Rafflecopter makes it even easier to check entries. With Google docs, I sorted by name and email address to look for duplicate entries. With Rafflecopter, I can also sort by IP address.
  • Random.org is built right into Rafflecopter, which makes selecting a winner even easier.

Here are a few things I don’t like about Rafflecopter:

  • It is in its infant stages, so there have been issues with the form not working occasionally.
  • It tracks using cookies, and sometimes will let you enter twice.
  • Can’t customize the look or change the ending time; the default ending time is 12:01 A.M. I think if there has to be a default, it should be 11:59 P.M. since it makes the end date not exactly right. Lots of bloggers don’t list an ending date on their giveaways, so I have to whip the calendar out to figure out when it ends for my roundup post. I would love to see it countdown by hours in the last day, and minutes in the last hour, but only if the end time can be changed. Right now it still shows 1 day left when there are just a few hours remaining.
  • It seems that the ease of entry has encouraged some bloggers to add even more entry methods. So it can still easily take 5-10 minutes to get maximum entries, especially when you have to continue to leave the form to complete tasks.
  • Some bloggers make you leave a comment, which means leaving the form, reloading the page etc. Rafflecopter doesn’t allow you to make the “extra info” field mandatory on the first entry, so people are confused and sometimes leave a comment on my giveaways rather than using the extra info field.
  • Rafflecopter allows multiple mandatory entries, but since they are listed independently, it will allow you to enter with one or the other. It just won’t let you complete bonus entries until you complete all the mandatory entries. Will the blogger view the list and disqualify entrants who didn’t complete both?
  • Rafflecopter offers minimal customization for the entries…it gathers the title of a Facebook entry from the Facebook URL, which makes it : ”’like’ changediapersblog” vs being able to write it how I want: “Change-Diapers.com.”
  • You cannot have more than one form on the home page of the blog, so you have to use the “read more” feature and require an extra click.

Concerns I’ve heard about Rafflecopter:

  • Other than the things I’ve already mentioned that bloggers and entrants both don’t like, the big one is that “sweepers” are concerned about cheating, since they cannot see the entries. Especially because they will see the total entries at a huge #, but only see a couple of comments. This is even more confusing since 25 entries could come from a single person the way many bloggers offer entries, so 10 entrants could create 250 entries. So did all the entries come from just a few people? Did people not leave a comment? Did they put the info in the extra info field instead? Will the blogger disqualify them or let it slide?
  • Can’t edit your entries if you make a mistake.
  • Issues with the form not working, form allowing you to enter twice etc.
  • Causes issues with drop down menus on WordPress blogs. I don’t use these, so it’s not a concern for me.
  • Form becomes broken when the post is edited. The same is true with the script I use to add the Facebook button at the end of my posts. I edit my posts in HTML mode vs visual mode, so this is not a problem for me either.

The cheating isn’t an issue here since my entry methods are so minimal that it takes me only a few minutes at the close of a giveaway to sort the entrants by name, email address and IP address, checking to make sure there are no duplicates. I can see this would be a big problem for giveaways that offer 10-15 methods for a giveaway, sometimes with 5-10 entries for a method. This would lead to huge lists with tons of entries to sort through. I don’t expect sweepers to believe that I do this, and that there will be no cheating going on here, but hopefully you all believe me!

The other “problem” with form entries in general for me as the blogger, is that my “page views” number is far lower than bloggers who have a page reloaded 25+ times for one person to enter a single giveaway. I’m not really concerned about this, but it could affect bloggers who are paid for ads by the # of impressions, and sponsors could potentially look at me as far less successful than others if they focus on a single number.

On the same note, my minimal entry methods make my giveaways look less successful to companies. I may have a giveaway with 250 entries and 250 unique entrants, but that looks unsuccessful compared to a blogger with 125 entrants, but literally thousands of entries for daily tweets, voting, leaving comments, entering other giveaways, 6 subscription options, blogging, grabbing multiple buttons etc. I entered one giveaway where I counted over 100 potential entries per person between the methods that got you 5+ entries, daily tweets etc.

While I am happy with my Rafflecopter entry forms, it’s not about me, it’s about you.

Do you like Rafflecopter in general? How about how I use it? I am doing my best to keep entry methods even simpler (making it name & email only, no mandatory comment/add’l info or bonus entries) whenever possible. I of course have to do what the sponsor asks if they’re not comfortable with that!

If the majority wants me to return to Google Docs or comment entry, I will certainly do that, though I’m doubting that will be the case. I’m sure there are some sweepers that see I use form entry, then just move on without entering or actually looking so see how I run the giveaways. While I value the traffic I receive from sweepers and sweepstakes sites, I’d really rather cater to my readers who come here for the information and community.

So this is your chance. Tell me what you think! What entry method do you prefer? What issues do you have with each method?





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Friday Giveaway Linky Giveaways Linky

Cloth Diaper Giveaway Roundup for 9/2/11 (Plus Linky for All Giveaways)

Cloth Diaper Giveaway Roundup

The only thing better than cloth diapers is free cloth diapers! Each week, I list cloth diaper, accessory and baby wearing giveaways in order of ending date!

If you’d like me to list your cloth diaper, accessory, baby wearing (etc.) giveaway next week, send a link and description to maria at change-diapers.com, or Fill out my contact form for readers.

The Cloth Diaper Whisperer

*Prizes from Fuzzibunz (no set end date, ends at 25k fans) Entry is through Facebook app, must “like” them on Facebook to enter

*Tiny Tush Diaper from Better Cloth Diapers and Mama on a Green Mission (ends 9/3) RC

*Tender Tushies Diaper from Thrifty Nifty Mommy Mandatory Facebook “like” (ends 9/3) Open to the U.S. and Canada GD

*Rumparooz Diaper, GroVia Wet Bag & Wipes from Petite Bottoms and Mommy of 1 and Counting (ends 9/3)

*Smartipants Newborn Diaper from Mommy of 1 and Counting (ends 9/3)

*Zookies Diaper Cover from Baby and the Chi’s Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/4)

*Rumparooz or Fuzzibunz Diaper from Changing Diapers and Baby and The Chi’s Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/4) RC

*Smartipants Diaper from Nini and Goo (ends 9/4) RC

*Star Baby Designs Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/4) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Kawaii Diaper from Jack Be Natural and Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/4)

*Charlie Banana Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/4)

*Bububibi Diaper from Video Product Reviews Mandatory Youtube subscription (ends 9/4) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Planet Wise Wet Bag from Happily Domestic (ends 9/4)

*Tiny Tush Diaper from Outnumbered 3 to 1 (ends 9/5)

*Little Lily Bamboo Cloth Wipes from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Green Bumkin Wet Bag from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Charlie Banana Diaper from Nature Bumz and The Not So Secret Confessions Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5) Open to the U.S. and Canada (RC)

*Lawless Designs Custom Cloth Diaper from Mama’s Passions Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5)

*Snap-EZ GC from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

*$25 Preston’s Pants GC-2 Winners-from Happily Domestic (ends 9/5)

*My Little Hipster Diaper from Alternative Housewife Mandatory follow-you choose how (ends 9/5)

*Smartipants Diaper from Obsessions of the Trophy Wife Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/5)

*Smartipants Diaper from 29 Diapers (ends 9/5)

Fuzzibunz Diaper & Wet Bag from 29 Diapers (ends 9/5)

Bumgenius Diaper from Diaper Style (ends 9/5)

Softbums Omni Diaper from 29 Diapers (ends 9/5)

Palm Tree Cover from I Love Cloth Diapers (ends 9/5) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

$15 EcoMom GC from Just By Living (ends 9/5)

Softbums Omni from 29 Diapers (ends 9/5)

*Softbums Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) RC

*Itti Bitti Tutto from Mod N Natural Mandatory: Two Facebook “likes” and two Twitter follows and GFC follow (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada GD

*Itti Bitti D’lish from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

*Woogie Monster Cloth Diaper from Thrifty Nifty Mommy Mandatory Facebook “like” (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada GD

*Smartipants Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) RC

*Rocket Bottoms Diaper from Tree Huggin Mama Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) GD

*Glow Bug Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) RC

*Monkey Doodlez Swim Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Beco Mini (Doll Carrier) from Parental Views (ends 9/6) GD

*$20 Rearz GC from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/6) Open Worldwide RC

*Piddle Poddles Diaper & Shirt from Happily Domestic (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada

$15 Ecomom GC from Happily Domestic (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada

Softbums Diaper Packages (ends 9/6) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

*Green Bottoms Diaper from Knocked Up and Nursing (ends 9/7) RC

*WAHMies Pail Liner from The Mommy Goods (ends 9/7) GD

*$25 Pat A Cake Baby GC from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/7) RC

*Rumparooz Diaper from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/7) RC

*Punkin Butt Wipes, Washy Wafers, Bottom Balm & Wipe Wet Bag from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/7) RC

Thirsties Duo Diaper, Duo Fab Fitted & Wrap (ends 9/7) RC

12 Diaper Rite Prefolds & 2 Thirsties Duo Wraps from Cloth Diaper Blog (ends 9/7) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

*Knickernappies Diaper from Wee Little Changes (ends 9/8)

*Charlie Banana Diapers from Double Duty Mommy Mandatory GFC follow and Facebook “like” (ends 9/8)

*Fuzzibunz or Rumparooz Diaper from Changing Diapers and Goodbye Disposable, Hello Cloth Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/8) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

*BambinoBums Diaper from Calgary Cloth Diaper Depot and Organic Mama Mandatory Facebook “like” (ends 9/8) RC

Pea in a Pod Diaper & Wet Bag from Kelly Wels (ends 9/8) RC

Rumparooz or Fuzzibunz Diaper from Changing Diapers and 17 Sirens (ends 9/8) RC

*Applecheeks Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/9) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*GroVia AIO Cloth Diaper from A Mom’s Take (ends 9/9)

*Thirsties Duo Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/9) Open to the U.S. and Canada

*Bumgenius Elemental from Sweetbottoms Baby Boutique and Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/9) Open to the U.S. and Canada

Cloth By Tel Diaper from Diapers, Dogs and Deployments Two Mandatory Facebook “likes” (ends 9/9) RC

GoGreen Champ Pocket Diaper from Your World Healthy and Natural Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/9)

Tinkle Traps Diapers from Happily Domestic (ends 9/9)

Oh Katy Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/9)

Planet Wise Sports Bag from Diaper Safari & Mommy of 1 and Counting
(ends 9/10)

Beco Mini (Doll Carrier) from Mommy of 1 and Counting (ends 9/10)

One Size Diaper from Eco Baby Mama Drama (ends 9/10) RC

Thirsties Duo Fab Fitted from Mod n Natural (ends 9/10) Two mandatory Facebook “likes” and GFC follow Open to the U.S. and Canada GD

Fuzzibunz Diaper from Healthy Heinys and The Cloth Diaper Convert (ends 9/12)

Green Line Diaper from Dibs (ends 9/12) Open to the U.S. and Canada GD

*WAHMies Diaper from The Mommy Goods (ends 9/13) GD

Cheeky Fluff Diaper from Crazy 4 Fluff Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/13)

Itti Bitti Tutto from Happily Domestic (ends 9/13)

Sleepy Wrap from Lil Roos and Nicki the Eval Gal (ends 9/13) RC

*Happy Green Wool Dryer Balls from One Smiley Monkey Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/14) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

AMP Diaper from Newly Crunchy Mama of 3 Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/14) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

Fuzzibunz or Rumparooz Diaper from Changing Diapers and Under the Apple Tree Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/14) RC

Pico Boo Diaper from Dirty Diaper Laundry (ends 9/14) RC

*10 Itti Bitti Tutto Diapers & Wetbag from Diapershops (ends 9/15) Entry is on Facebook

*Babee Greens Wool Shorties from Eco Babyz Mandatory vote (ends 9/15)

*Smartipants Diaper from The Nurse Mommy Mandatory Facebook “like” (ends 9/15)

Posh Pumpkins Diaper & Wet Bag from The Mommy Goods (ends 9/15) GD

Tiny Tush Diaper from Baby Dickey’s Giveaways (ends 9/15) RC

$20 Wee Little Changes GC from Real Moms Real Reviews (ends 9/15)

Zookies Diaper Cover from Sisters N Cloth Mandatory Facebook “like” (ends 9/15) RC

*Beco Gemini Carrier from Monkey Tales Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/16) RC

Best Bottom Diaper from Diaper Safari and Newly Crunchy Mama of 3 Mandatory GFC follow (ends 9/16) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

Smartipants Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/16) Open to the U.S> and Canada

GoGreen Pocket Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/16)

$25 Sweet Cheeks Diaper Co GC-3 Winners-From Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/16)

Charlie Banana Diaper from Grinning Cheek to Cheek (ends 9/16)

Softbums Diaper & Ergo Baby Carrier from I Love Cloth Diapers-The Softbums Blog (ends 9/17) Open to the U.S. and Canada RC

Planet Wise Mini Wet Bag from Nicki’s Diapers and Mommy is Green (ends 9/17)

*$100 Ultimate Green Store GC from Mommy and Me Giveaways Mandatory newsletter subscription and GC follow (ends 9/18)

Planet Wise Swim/Diaper Bag from Diaper Safari and One Smiley Monkey Mandatory GFC follow Open to the U.S. and Canada (ends 9/21) RC

*$10 Everything Birth GC from Fluffy Bums (ends 10/12) RC

*giveaways that have been listed in a prior week’s roundup
RC Entries collected via Rafflecopter
GD Entries collected via Google Docs Form

You may enter any “family friendly” giveaway in the linky below. The form Blog name – Giveaway Item – Ending date works well. Please at least include the item and end date, and link directly to the giveaway.

View my where I list my giveaways post, to find more places to link up your giveaways!





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Winner Winner Chicken Dinner

Eco Sprout Detergent Winner

Eco Sprout Winner

124 people entered this giveaway, with 285 entries in all. Remember that my screen shot shows 1 day left since I end my giveaways at 9 vs. 12:01.

The winning entry is #149, which is Summer Dietzel. Congrats Summer, I’m sending you an email so you can claim your prize!


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Blog Hop Cloth Diaper Blog Hop Linky

Cloth Diaper Blog Hop for September 2011

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It’s September, so it’s time for a new cloth diaper blog hop. If you always (or just sometimes) blog about cloth diapers, please link up! Please spread the word so we can get new participants this month!

This hop is easy to participate in; you don’t have to blog about the hop or post the button. Of course, I’d love it it if you would blog, post the button, tweet and/or share on Facebook.

You don’t have to follow certain blog or leave comments. I hope you will stop by the other blogs, follow them if you like what they’re writing about, and leave a comment if you have something to say!

I love to read blogs, so I will follow anyone who links up!




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Breastfeeding Personal Posts

Breastfeeding…(dun dun DUNNNNN) in PUBLIC! (GASP!)

You may have seen my post about my breastfeeding experiences, but I didn’t say much about nursing in public, A.K.A. “N.I.P.” (aside from the delivery room.) I said I was going to stay away from controversy, and breastfeeding in public seems to be full of it, even amongst breastfeeding supporters! This post is just my usual rambling about what I think. One of my many mottos is “live and let live,” so I really don’t give a Guinea pig’s patootie what you do and I am certainly not intending to shove my opinions down anyone’s throat!

I have heard so many people say they are all for a woman’s right to nurse her baby anywhere…as long as she “covers up.” But what does that even mean? There are lots of covers out there…most remind me of a beautician’s cape/raincoat or something. Some have a rigid collar so Mom can peek and see the baby without being exposed. Some throw a blanket over their shoulder/baby, or others like me wear layers. So what does “covered” mean? I’ve always worn either a nursing top, or a shirt over a tank, so I can pull one up, the other down, and keep my breast and stomach covered (believe me, I’d rather show my milk jug than my postpartum tummy, LOL.) The baby’s face covers the Janet Jackson/Superbowl portion of the whole deal.

It’s possible that someone could catch a glimpse if they were inches from me and staring directly at my chest as the baby unlatched, but I could typically tell when my little ones were getting to that point, and I’d have my other hand ready to yank my shirt down immediately.

I am pretty comfortable nursing anywhere with this method. My kids would not nurse if they were covered. They’d squirm, thrash, squeal, and generally refuse to nurse. With my layer method, I’ve nursed babes to sleep in restaurants (and enjoyed my meal-one handed-in peace and quiet!) and even nursed at the National Zoo. I fact, I’ve had people come close enough to touch the baby’s head, and they still thought s/he was sleeping!

Certainly if you are comfortable with a nursing cover, more power to you. For me, the cape dealie combined with the screeching, uncooperative baby under it feels like a flashing, neon sign advertising what I’m doing. When I’m “N.I.P.” I generally avoid eye contact with anyone, and if I feel (or see out of the corner of my eye) any nasty looks, I’ll talk to the baby, engage my daughter in conversation and/or stare off into the distance and smile sweetly. I’ve never had anyone say anything to me, and I don’t know what I’d do if someone did. The idea makes my heart pound and my cheeks flush, but I’d probably just end up crying from embarrassment!

I’ve nursed a baby while grocery shopping as well. Again, it ends up looking like I’m holding a sleeping baby, and no one’s shopping is disrupted. The other option? Carrying a screeching baby, purse and coupon book through the store, herding my daughter along (pretty soon I will be holding 1 and herding 2!), abandoning my cart while trying to find a place to nurse the baby. Many times I’d end up in the uncomfortably hot or cold car, with whiny, bored other children. Only to go back in and start all over. Both of my kids tended to want to nurse a bit more for comfort when we were away from home, and they often ended up dozing afterwards, which is a total win-win.

For whatever reason, I don’t care much about what strangers think. I’m not doing anything wrong, I’m not showing anything, and I’m doing the most convenient, least disruptive thing for everyone involved. If some stranger ends up telling their neighbor about the crazy breastfeeding lady at the store later, who cares? I’ll never know, I’ll never see them again, and they’ll forget about it by tomorrow.

I feel different about people I know. Whether I have a guest at my home, or I’m a guest in someone else’s home, I will say “do you mind if I nurse here?” Generally the answer is “oh no, go right ahead!” If someone preferred I didn’t, I would definitely ask if there was another place I could go to sit (that’s never happened.) I can’t get comfortable nursing around my in-laws (they did not nurse and were not nursed either), so I end up hiding out when they are visiting while I’m nursing. My kids aren’t typically nurse and done babies, they graze a bit, doze off a little etc. If I try to rush them to get back to the visit, it just leads to a ticked off baby and trips up and downstairs.

My Mom is funny because she will shoo my Dad away/out of the room if I’m nursing, but it doesn’t bother me (or him) one bit. *shrug* I know I made my sister’s boyfriend uncomfortable when I nursed my son across the dinner table in a little cafe, but again, he couldn’t see a thing, and we were all able to enjoy our meals (it was freezing outside and there was simply nowhere else for me to go.) He didn’t say anything, nor did my sister, so hopefully it didn’t bother them too much!

I found it interesting when I went to a “nurse-in” at the mall, and saw everyone’s various nursing styles. There were people with stomachs and breasts totally exposed, some with shirts pulled down and upper breasts exposed, and others who were more inconspicuous like me. None of it bothers me a bit personally. You could take your shirt completely off to nurse and use your nursing bra as a lasso to wrangle your other child…while I might think you were a little weird, I wouldn’t be “offended.” What makes me uncomfortable is making someone else uncomfortable. My instinct is to look at the baby, which makes it look like I’m trying to sneak a peek at the goods, LOL. So I end up having no idea where to look, and getting very squirmy while trying to have a conversation with a nursing mama.

At the “nurse in” I couldn’t help but think that the most “free” breastfeeding mamas were still showing far less skin than at least half of the teenage girls walking around the mall (that are supposedly “fully clothed”) and I won’t even talk about people’s bathing suit coverage! The way I see it, if you see something that offends you, look away. When I took my kids to the carnival, there was a “young man” wearing a shirt that read in big, bold letters “I may be shy, but I have a big …” only his shirt had the d word that rhymes with kick instead of “…” I find that (and those “dangly things” people put on the back of their pickup trucks) to be rather tactless, distasteful, and just plain yucky. So, I look away. Unfortunately having a child who can read makes it more difficult!! For the record, I’m not a total prude, if he wanted to wear that to a bar or something, fine, but why would you wear that at 6 P.M. somewhere that’s full of little kids? Bah.

The other “issue” is that people have different “cut offs” for when a baby is “too old” to nurse in public. Again, I don’t really care what other people do. Though both of my kids nursed until almost two (and my son nursed a lot) no one other than my husband and Mom really knew they were “still nursing” since I was able to distract/delay them a bit as they got older. Well, except the time my 16 month old daughter saw an infant nursing and suddenly decided she needed to “nuss…NUSS!!” right NOW! I thought it was cute, but I realize a lot of people think it’s “gross.”

I was reading a book by Dr. Leman, and I thought it was pretty decent until I read a seemingly random paragraph basically saying that any mother who nursed past 12 months was doing it for selfish reasons and essentially needed some therapy. OK yes, I know I’m taking liberties here but it was enough to make my blood boil and cause my hubby to have to listen to a 10 minute rant about what an idiot this guy is, followed by a vow to boycott him forever. We were outside working in the yard with the radio on last week and some commercial about his wife came on. My husband was confused since I started a mumbling rant about her idiot husband, tee-hee!

Anyhoo, the most recent breastfeeding statistics for Maryland I could find, actually show Maryland’s rates as slightly higher than the national. I find that truly shocking since it seems so rare (and really, the rates are still pretty abyssmal.)

Other than the nurse in, I recall two three occasions where I saw another mom breastfeeding. I almost don’t count the first since it was in the “nursing lounge” a.k.a. bathroom at Nordstrom. Another time, we were eating at a festival at the farm near our house, and saw a mom nursing. I was so surprised and pleased to see another nursing mom, that I think I looked at her a few seconds too long, and she gave me a dirty look. Whoops.

The last time was actually not too long ago at Target. It was a rare trip without the kiddos, and as I was walking out the door, I saw a Mom with 2 other kids, what looked like her Mom, nursing a baby under one of the big cape cover dealies. Again, I was so surprised, that I gave her a double take. I’m not the type to say anything to anyone, but I made the split second decision to tell her she was full of the awesome and to rock on (not my exact words.) We ended up chatting for a few minutes and I left feeling all warm & fuzzy. Really, I thought about how a quick kind word would probably stick with me for the rest of my life, whereas I’d probably take the double take (like I gave her) as negative.

Are you comfortable nursing in public? Do you feel different nursing around strangers vs. people you know?




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